The Behavior Blueprint with Mandy Grass

Why Kids Hit and What You Can Do About It

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If you find yourself constantly saying, "we don't hit!" only to have it happen again five minutes later, this episode is for you! Hitting is a form of communication, and if we only focus on stopping the physical act, we are missing the most important part: why it’s happening in the first place.

In this episode, we explore the four functions of behavior and how they apply to physical aggression. Of course there are the traditional consequences like lectures and time-outs, which often fail, so in this episode, Mandy breaks down how we can shift our focus toward teaching "replacement behaviors" that actually stick. Whether you are dealing with a toddler who swats when they are over-excited or children struggling with sibling conflict, this edition of the podcast has a blueprint to move from reactionary parenting to consistent, skill-based coaching!

Tools & Resources

⁠The Family Behaviorist Club: Access the January resource—a customizable, printable visual schedule.⁠

Website:⁠ thefamilybehaviorist.com⁠

Social Media: Follow @TheFamilyBehaviorist on⁠ Instagram⁠ and⁠ TikTok⁠.

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