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Pro Dad Hacks as an Entrepreneur with Mike Malloy | Dad of 1

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Key takeaways

  • Embrace the chaos of remote work and parenting; interruptions can lead to unexpected opportunities.
  • Significant milestones in a child's independence can provoke deep emotional reflections in parents.
  • Create a business structure that aligns with your family values to enable work-life balance.
  • Leverage time management techniques like time-blocking for enhanced productivity and personal time.
  • Use technology wisely, implementing rules and boundaries to cultivate a healthy environment for children.
  • Being present during special moments fosters stronger relationships with children.

Summary

Navigating Parenting and Work Life

In this episode, Mike Malloy navigates the chaos of remote work while parenting a toddler. He shares humorous anecdotes about his son Max's playful interruptions during client calls, illustrating how these moments can lead to unexpected successes at work. Mike embraces the unpredictability of parenting from home, highlighting how Max even assists in closing deals.

Milestones in Parenting and Independence

Mike discusses the emotional experiences tied to parenting milestones, particularly the first day of camp for Max. After three years of full-time parenting, letting go and allowing Max to explore independence marks a significant transition for both father and son.

Building a Family-Centric Business

Mike reflects on his journey of building Malloy Industries, a company designed to provide more time and freedom, especially after the loss of his mother and awaiting fatherhood. He emphasizes the importance of creating a business structure that runs efficiently without his constant presence, enabling him to focus on family while serving clients.

Effective Time Management Strategies

Introducing frameworks like time-blocking and nightly maps, Mike lays out his strategies for managing his energy and focus throughout the week. He explains how scheduling personal time for family adventures and reflective planning sessions can boost productivity and work-life balance.

Leveraging Technology and AI for Parenting

Mike presents an innovative use of AI in day-to-day parenting through a custom GPT named Chef Shock. This AI assists him in meal planning, offering dietary recommendations based on his family's preferences, and alleviating the pressures of daily cooking.

Technology Boundaries and Parenting Rules

As a technology-conscious parent, Mike discusses strategies for managing tech's influence on family life, including setting clear boundaries for Max's screen time and emphasizing physical play over digital exposure. He shares insights about modeling healthy tech habits for his son.

Lessons and Reflections on Fatherhood

Reflecting on his own early parenting days, Mike advises on cherishing moments during nap times rather than succumbing to digital distractions. He stresses the impact of being present with Max and appreciating the simple joys of fatherhood.

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Show notes

Mike Malloy is the founder of Malloy Industries, a firm that connects scaling entrepreneurs with vetted fractional executives. He's also a Georgetown professor, a husband, and the father of Max, the company's self-declared Chief Cuteness Officer. Mike’s life is an intersection of serious business systems and silly dad jokes, all woven together by an intentional approach to work-life integration.


In this episode, Mike shares how building a business around his family values helped him show up better both as a parent and as a professional. We discussed:

  • Parenting in public: From potty training during a client call to his son interrupting meetings to demand frisbee time, Mike embraces the chaos of parenting while working from home, and sometimes those interruptions help close deals.
  • The transition to camp and growing independence: Mike opens up about the emotional milestone of sending his son to camp for the first time after three years of full-time care. 
  • Designing a business with family in mind: Mike started Malloy Industries not just to serve founders, but to reclaim his own time. After losing his mom and learning he was about to become a dad, he redesigned his business to run without relying solely on him, and has since built a network of 400+ fractional executives.
  • Time-blocking and nightly maps: Mike walks us through his framework for managing energy and focus throughout the week, including why he blocks off Wednesday mornings for uninterrupted dad adventures.
  • Dad jokes, magnet tiles, and parenting hacks: Whether he’s swapping jokes at the library or bringing a second monitor to Panera for a “crush-it day,” Mike brings levity and intentionality to every corner of life as a founder and a father.


Where to find Mike Malloy

Where to find Adam Fishman


In this episode, we cover:

(00:00) Introducing Mike Malloy

(02:35) Max the deal-closer and executive artist

(04:50) First day of camp and emotional milestones

(07:17) Starting Malloy Industries and the fractional future

(10:07) Grieving his mom and preparing for fatherhood

(14:28) The "who not how" mindset shift

(15:35) Be where your feet are and present parenting

(19:35) The great cheese stick negotiation

(23:28) Pro dad hacks for books and lullabies

(24:36) Time blocking and scheduling around energy

(29:16) Monthly “crush it” days and managing flow

(30:54) Nightly maps and intentional daily planning

(34:37) The wooden box and tech boundaries

(38:08) Chef Jacques and using AI to plan meals

(41:18) Modeling tech habits and setting rules

(43:56) Advice to his pre-dad self during nap traps

(46:23) Lightning round: parenting quirks and dad jokes

Resources From This Episode:

Daddy and Me: https://www.amazon.com/Daddy-Me-Tiya-Hall/dp/1680524526

Never Touch a Porcupine: https://www.amazon.com/Never-Touch-Porcupine-Believe-Ideas/dp/1788439856

A Crack in the Track (Thomas and Friends): https://www.amazon.com/Crack-Track-Thomas-Friends/dp/0375827552

Fox is Coming!: https://www.amazon.com/Fox-Coming-James-Patterson/dp/0316572837

Like a Boss Play Kit: https://shopping.mattel.com/en-gb/products/fisher-price-2-in-1-like-a-boss-activity-center-hbm26-en-gb

Lewis Library Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/lewisulibrary/
Zootopia: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2948356/
Mickey Mouse Clubhouse: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0784896/

Cars: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0317219/

Blank Check: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0109287/

Empire Records: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0112950/

Santa Clause: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0111070/ 

Cal Newport: https://calnewport.com/

Georgetown U: https://www.georgetown.edu/

Who Not How: The Formula to Achieve Bigger Goals Through Accelerating Teamwork

by Dan Sullivan, Benjamin Hardy: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/who-not-how-dan-sullivan/1136703973

The Daily Dad: 366 Meditations on Parenting, Love, and Raising Great Kids

by Ryan Holiday: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-daily-dad-ryan-holiday/1141941652

Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be

by Becky Kennedy: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/good-inside-becky-kennedy/1140501121

Nir Eyal’s Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GqogSRDhzeU

Notion: https://www.notion.com/

Door knob safety cover: https://www.amazon.com/Door-Knob-Covers-Child-Safety/dp/B071GWJX4D

Muppet Babies: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0086764/

Super Wings: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt3600266/?ref_=nv_sr_srsg_0_tt_8_nm_0_in_0_q_suoper%2520wings

Toy Story: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0114709/?ref_=nv_sr_srsg_1_tt_7_nm_0_in_0_q_toy%2520story

Goofy Movie: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0113198/?ref_=fn_all_ttl_1

Mini Magnatiles: https://magnatiles.com/products/micromags-travel-set?srsltid=AfmBOopwJyPjVfhLblqNFq2f1QIUtupBKjvD0tqIrY8kydu8LlX00XYH

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