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Emotional intelligence, navigating race and fatherhood in the UK | Ben Williams (father of 2, advisor at PLGeek.com)

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Ben Wiliams is a product and engineering executive and was most recently the VP Product at Snyk; an $8B developer tools company. He is currently a Product and Growth advisor and owner of PLGeek.com as well as The Product Led Geek Newsletter. Ben is a husband and father of two kids and my first international interview (he hails from the UK).


In this episode we discuss:


  • The importance of therapy in a successful career and marriage and how it's stigmatized in the UK
  • His early exposures to racism and his upbringing in a mixed race family in the UK
  • Meeting your wife on a dating app
  • The challenges and joys of being a Dad
  • Growing up in a strict household
  • How a career never prepares you for the rollercoaster of fatherhood
  • Sacrifices you make to be more present
  • How life is different for parents in the UK than the States
  • Building a robust support network
  • Hilarious stories about "birthing class."
  • Rapid Fire - UK edition

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Where to find Ben Williams


- Twitter (aka X): https://twitter.com/semanticben


- LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/semanticben/


- Product Led Geek Newsletter: https://www.plg.news/


 


Where to find Adam Fishman


- Newsletter: https://www.fishmanafnewsletter.com


- LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/


- Twitter (aka X): https://twitter.com/fishmanaf


- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/


- Threads: https://www.threads.net/@fishmanaf


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In this episode, we cover:


[2:06] Welcome


[2:47] Professional background


[4:55] Career prepped for parenting?


[5:17] Childhood family environment/racism


[10:06] Partner/kids


[13:15] Earliest memory of being a dad?


[14:20] UK prep for baby


[18:06] Making sacrifices


[22:26] Risk awareness


[23:17] UK/USA parenting/mental health


[26:23] Emotional intelligence


[29:29] How do kids get along?


[31:28] Support structures


[33:36] Parenting frameworks


[36:32] Partner disagreement


[39:31] Mistake as a father?


[40:46] Comfort zone in parenting


[41:15] Work/home balance


[47:22] Talking to kids about racism


[49:20] Rapid fire round


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Show references:


The University of Manchester


Snyk


CloudBees


PLGEEK


Polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS)


Brickies


National Childbirth Trust (NCT)


In vitro fertilization (IVF)


Brazilian jiu-jitsu (BJJ)


Fresh Food Feeder


Playmobile Large Princess Castle


IBM


Fujitsu


Acorn Electron


Sinclair ZX Spectrum


BBC Micro


VW ID. Buzz


Pong/Asteroids


Bob Marley


Peppa Pig


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Production support for Startup Dad is provided by Tommy Harron at http://www.armaziproductions.com/


Episode art designed by Matt Sutherland at https://www.mspnw.com/


 



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