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Thinking Outside the Dox: What 'consensual doxing' can teach us about internet privacy

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Key takeaways

  • Kristen’s 'consensual doxing' highlights the need for consent and consideration when sharing personal details online.
  • Oversharing on social media can lead to unintended consequences, emphasizing the importance of digital privacy.
  • Context collapse can blur social boundaries online, making it crucial to understand who has access to your personal information.
  • Engaging with social media should come with a responsibility to protect one's own and others' information.

Summary

The Concept of Consensual Doxing

Kristen Sotakoun, a TikTok creator known as NotCon Junior, provides a unique take on doxing by engaging in consensual investigations, where she finds people’s birthdays through their social media. This method, labeled as 'consensual doxing,' emphasizes permission and fun rather than malicious intent. Kristen started this journey by leveraging keen observation and social media skills, transforming a casual skill into a viral phenomenon.

The Implications of Online Privacy

The podcast dives deeply into the implications of sharing personal information online. Kristen reflects on how her consensual doxing series serves as a lesson for audiences regarding internet privacy. While her content is playful, it highlights the potential consequences of oversharing on social media and brings attention to the complexities of personal data exposure.

Context Collapse and Its Consequences

Another critical theme discussed is 'context collapse,' where individuals fail to realize that their online personas can expose personal details to unexpected audiences. The hosts talk about how easy it is to inadvertently share private information, especially when friends or family overshare online. Case studies from Kristen's videos illustrate the importance of being mindful about what is posted online, urging listeners to think critically about their digital footprints.

Reflecting on Digital Behavior

The episode concludes with discussions on adjusting personal behaviors on social media. Both Kristen and the hosts emphasize that being responsible online extends beyond individual actions and involves community awareness. They encourage listeners to actively manage their online presence and discuss privacy settings while also navigating the joys of social connection.

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Show notes

Kristen Sotakoun (@notkahnjunior on TikTok) says she has always been 'the FBI of the friend group' – that person you can count on to dig up the juicy details on anyone's social media.

It's a skillset that has earned her millions  upon millions of views on TikTok in a series she has dubbed 'consensual doxing.' In her videos, Kristen completes challenges from her viewers to find their birthdays, using only publicly posted information online.

Kristen is now a handful of creators on TikTok who are making consensual doxing videos as educational content, encouraging viewers to think more deeply about what they post online, and where.

On this week's Endless Thread, we dive into the world of consensual doxing, what it can teach us about our privacy, and host Ben Brock Johnson gets (consensually) doxed.

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