Why I No Longer Lead an Attractional Model Church

In this podcast, Moose and James discuss the challenges faced by churches during the COVID pandemic, leading to a significant loss of congregants and exposing weak discipleship practices. James reflects on the attractional model of church leadership which prioritized drawing large crowds over discipling deeply. He acknowledges that while many churches operated under the assumption that small groups were sufficient for discipleship, the reality was that these groups were not functioning as intended, leading to anemic faith among members. The conversation emphasizes the need for a shift towards genuine discipleship.

James discusses his shift in preaching as a result of the pandemic, realizing he had been targeting primarily non-believers in his messages rather than equipping the church. The goal of reaching newcomers shifted to focusing on strengthening the existing congregation's faith and understanding of difficult topics, including sexuality and identity. This requires a more challenging and deeper approach to preaching that holds members accountable and encourages growth in their relationship with Jesus.

The discussion highlights the importance of addressing uncomfortable subjects more openly within the church. James reflects on his previous hesitance to address topics like sexuality and gender during sermons, fearing that these subjects would alienate congregants. Instead, he opted for one-on-one conversations where he could engage with individuals in a compassionate manner. The podcast stresses how avoiding tough discussions leaves congregants to form opinions based on cultural influences rather than biblical truth.

Throughout the pandemic, James emphasizes the need to develop a robust discipleship framework within the church. Post-COVID, he strives to correct the previous approach by focusing on equipping church members, not just ensuring they are connected through small groups. He begins to implement formal discipleship programs, training leaders, and ensuring that biblical teachings are interwoven through every aspect of church life. James’s journey ultimately leads him to the Relational Discipleship Network, where he seeks support and guidance in cultivating a healthy church environment.

James discusses the current cultural landscape that poses challenges to the church's message. The legalization of same-sex marriage and the rise of gender identity discussions create a backdrop where biblical truths are often at odds with societal values. James emphasizes the importance of not compromising on biblical teachings while still embodying love and grace in conversations around these topics. He resolves that the church must provide members with the theology needed to address complex issues while maintaining fidelity to scripture.