1. Did Covid-19 Kill the Handshake?

In this light-hearted discussion, Steven Dubner humorously explores the future of the handshake post-pandemic with co-host Angela Duckworth. They debate whether social norms, particularly handshaking, will change due to increased awareness of hygiene and personal boundaries prompted by COVID-19. They share personal anecdotes and preferences, arguing that the handshake might be ‘gross’ and suggest alternatives like saluting or bowing. They maintain a humorous tone as they consider how collective experiences during the pandemic might influence social rituals and interactions going forward.

Angela poses a question about why humans seem to struggle with uncertainty now, more than ever, despite it being a constant part of the human experience throughout history. Steven discusses how human expectations about certainty have changed due to advancements in predictive capabilities in various fields, particularly through technology and science. They acknowledge that the inherent unpredictability of the future causes stress and suboptimal decision-making, emphasizing the difference between risk (measurable) and uncertainty (often imagined). They conclude that collective experiences like the pandemic highlight our shared struggles with uncertainty.

As they reflect on social conventions in the wake of quarantine, Angela and Steven share insights on how social habits may change in the post-COVID world. They discuss the implications of enforced isolation on daily interactions and how emerging behaviors could reshape the way people communicate, including strategies for declining social invitations without guilt. The conversation uncovers the interesting dynamic of social obligations in the future, and whether people will lean into their newfound preferences or revert back to past norms.

The duo touches upon the complexities of maintaining consistency in behaviors and relationships, particularly when dealing with uncertainty. Angela emphasizes the need for predictable environments for children to foster resilience and adaptability. They discuss the psychological impact of surprise and the importance of preparing for both good and bad outcomes. This section invites listeners to reflect on how expectations influence their emotional wellbeing and interactions.