No Stupid Questions

221. Why Are We So Pessimistic?

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Key takeaways

  • Societal pessimism seems to be increasing, especially among younger generations, influenced by media negativity and conflict entrepreneurs.
  • The belief that one has control (agency) over their life significantly impacts their optimism.
  • Small wins can foster a sense of confidence and optimism, particularly in the younger generation.
  • Highlighting and sharing positive stories can help combat feelings of hopelessness and foster a more optimistic outlook.
  • Practical steps to create small, achievable goals can lead to greater overall satisfaction and happiness.

Summary

Pessimism in Society

Angela Duckworth and Mike Marn engage in a thought-provoking discussion about societal pessimism, initiated by a question from Jason Duckworth regarding the increasing sense of hopelessness in humanity, particularly among Gen Z. They explore whether the sentiment around negativity has become more dominant in recent years, referencing a sentiment analysis of New York Times articles which shows a shift towards negativity beginning in the 1960s. Angela highlights the role of conflict entrepreneurs in media who profit by driving conflict and perpetuating a sense of despair.

The Concept of Agency

The conversation pivots to the concept of agency, particularly drawing on the works of Martin Seligman, who coined the term 'learned helplessness' during his research with dogs facing inescapable shocks. Angela and Mike discuss how control over one's future correlates with optimism, using Seligman's findings to dissect the mechanisms behind why people may feel defeated. They suggest that while agency has historically increased, many still struggle with feelings of helplessness in an ever-complex world.

Trends Among Generations

Angela points out that data indicates younger generations, like Gen Z, are increasingly pessimistic about the world and their future. She references Jean Twenge's work that shows a rise in pessimistic beliefs among 12th graders since the turn of the millennium. The discussion then shifts to how this sense of pessimism might be addressed through fostering small wins and agency, particularly emphasizing Michelle Obama's advice to start small rather than dream big.

The Importance of Small Wins

The duo emphasizes the power of small wins in cultivating optimism and agency. They reference a past study by Ziggler and Butterfield that modifies traditional IQ testing to include easier questions first, illustrating the effectiveness of small victories in motivating children. They argue that by ensuring individuals experience manageable successes, especially in education, it can uplift overall self-efficacy and combat pessimism.

Strategies for Optimism

In the conclusion of their conversation, Angela and Mike encourage listeners to focus on positive news as a way to nurture optimism. They draw from Upworthy's mission to publish uplifting stories, outlining examples of positive human stories and achievements that can inspire. Centering around small actionable steps individuals can take, the duo argues that shifting focus from societal issues toward localized victories can help reinforce a sense of agency and brighten outlooks.

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Show notes

Are things really as bad as they seem? Has Gen Z given up hope for the world? And why was the father of positive psychology a lifelong pessimist?

 

 

 


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