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Annoying Partners, Aging Parents, Impossible Coworkers: Buddhist Advice for Conflict, Communication, and "Patience with Teeth" | devon and nico hase
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Which conflict style are you? Plus: avoiding the "trance of nice," walking the high wire, and an uber-hack for getting over irritation.
devon + nico hase serve as guiding teachers of the online dharma community Refuge of Belonging. They teach at the Insight Meditation Society, Spirit Rock, and other centers, offer online and in-person retreats, and speak with students in one-on-one sessions. They are the co-authors of How Not to Be a Hot Mess and the new This Messy, Gorgeous Love: A Buddhist Guide to Lasting Partnership.
In this episode we talk about:
- Why friction in relationships is a feature, not a bug
- The three directions of listening
- Why joy isn't a nice-to-have
- How contemplating death can dissolve everyday irritation
- Whether you're a volcano, a diplomat, or a dodger
- How to rupture like a pro
- Why real patience has teeth
- What it means to walk the high wire in a conflict
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